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Protecting Your Child: What to do if They've Been Preyed on Online

In today's digital age, where children spend a significant amount of time onlinem it is essential for parents to remain vigilant in protecting their little ones from potential dangers. Discovering that your child has been preyed on online can be a terrifying experience, but it is crucial to approach the situation calmly and with a well-thought-out plan. Read on to find out what steps you can take to protect your child while addressing the issue with caution and care. 

1. Stay Calm, but Act Swiftly:

Upon learning about your child's situation, it's natural to experience a rush of fear and panic. However, it's important to remain calm and composed. Take a deep breath, collect yourself, and gather all the necessary information about the situation. Your child needs your support and guidance during this challenging time.

2. Listen and Believe:

Sit down with your child and create a safe space for them to open up about what happened. Remaining non-judgmental and supportive will help your child feel comfortable discussing their experiences. Making them feel heard and believed is crucial in building trust and an open line of communication. 

3. Document and Preserve Evidence:

If your child has received inappropriate messages or interactions, take screenshots or save any other evidence that may be useful in reporting the incident. This documentation will aid law enforcement, as well as any subsequent actions you may need to take.

4. Report the Incident:

Contact your local authorities and provide them with the collected evidence. Depending on the severity of the situation, they will guide you on the appropriate steps to take. Additionally, report the incident to the online platform where the harassment was taking place, ensuring that the appropriate measures are taken to protect others from falling victim to the same predator. 

5. Seek Professional Help:

Speak with a therapist or counselor who specializes in child psychology. They can help your child navigate the emotional effects of the incident, providing them with strategies to recover and build resilience. Remember, there is no shame in seeking professional support for your child and yourself.

6. Increase Online Safety Measures:

Review and strengthen your child's online security measures. Teach them about internet safety and the importance of privacy settings, and reinforce the practice of not sharing personal information with strangers online. Utilize parental control software and monitoring apps to strengthen your ability to protect your child from further harm. 

By taking these steps, you are assuming an active role in supporting and safeguarding your child. Remember, open communication, empathy, and professional guidance are key to helping your child overcome this traumatic experience. Let them know they are not alone and that you are with them every step of the way towards healing and recovering. Stay attuned, stay infoemed and stay actively involved in your child's digital world.

Author
Dr. Muhammad Zeshan Headshot Dr. Muhammad Zeshan My name is Muhammad Zeshan, MD, and I am a Harvard trained infant, child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist at Inside Out, a private practice based in Princeton, New Jersey. I am currently working as an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School-Newark, New Jersey. Through Inside Out CURE, my focus is to help individuals become more Compassionate, Understanding, and aware of their inner strength and vulnerabilities, while developing Resilience and Empathy. I offer a variety of mental health care services to all age groups (infancy through adulthood) by applying principals of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, positive psychology, family therapy, parent-child intervention therapy, pharmacology, and neuroscience.

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